This can change the game of life
- Madalina Martin
- Nov 28, 2025
- 2 min read
Let me tell you something which is rarely told in the world of self-development.
No one heals completely and forever. And it does not even have to. Life is not meant for perfection, life is for living, and in the last few years, the world of coaching made a mistake and transformed healing in an obsession, a sort of to do list, a means to an end.
And many wait until they are ready, to heal completely to be able to start something new, a new relationship, a new project, be creative and to ultimately to live in this moment.
And then, there is a delay in loving, in creating, in taking action. But waiting is not helpful, as we may never be perfect. This is a path of courage, a path to live with our wounds, to choose love instead of fear, to create even in doubt, making mistakes, without knowing the outcome. It is a path where we choose to be the best version which we can be and live with integrity and joy.
Seneca said: ''a powerful man is the one who wears his pain, but does not allow it to stop his steps.''
Perhaps, this is the one lesson we should all remember of: to feel the fear, but do it anyway. Life invites us not to wait but

to live, here, now.
Successful people are not the ones who wait to heal, are the ones who choose life while they are healing.
Allow yourself to be held, to be alive, to love yourself enough and you will see how good can life be when you don't wait for a future where conditions seem ready for change.
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